Comments on: when being a best friend sucks

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By: Therapeutic Ramblings

Therapeutic Ramblings — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 04:21:51 +0000

It is best to come from you….as you mean it to help him.

By: Heather Rose

Heather Rose — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 22:35:26 +0000

I have a friend just like this. She’s been in a vicious cycle for like…her entire life. She’s hurting herself and everyone who cares about her.

I still haven’t gotten up the moxy to tell her that everyone’s tired of it, and she needs to suck it up and stop it.

I’m proud of you.

You’re more of a man than I, my friend. Which I’m kinda relieved about.

By: AuburnKat

AuburnKat — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 03:17:42 +0000

Situations like this can be very difficult. If my best friend was doing something that I really disagreed with and I felt she needed to her my opinion, I would tell her. I would also tell her that I would support her in whatever decision that she made, but I wanted her to hear my opinion.

You did what you thought you had to do to help your friend out. He will realize it someday. I think you just need to make it clear in a guy way that you are his friend and that you just care about him…

Just don’t tell me what I don’t want to hear and we will all be set=)

By: Princess Pointful

Princess Pointful — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 02:41:24 +0000

I gotta agree with Nicole Antoinette on this one. I know I’ve been hurt when I found out people had realized I was in a bad situation and never said anything. He should know you well enough to know that you would never say anything just to hurt your feelings. I hope it all turns out okay.

By: Paula

Paula — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 21:33:43 +0000

Surely sitting back and doing nothing would be worse? Sounds like you did the right thing as a friend.

By: Alaina

Alaina — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 18:22:32 +0000

You did the right thing. It really does sucks, but it was the right thing to do, no way around that man.

If he’s ready to deal, he’ll accept and forgive. Just needs time.

I’ve always wondered about the T thing too, maybe someone should do some reasearch.

By: Marie

Marie — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 18:21:11 +0000

You know what I’ve learned? Sometimes people don’t want to hear it. Even when you’ve told them. They just don’t want to listen. And they will keep on doing whatever it is they want to do.

I’ve done what you did quite a number of times with various friends and I got told off by them. So I just keep my yap shut now.

But I really hope your friend still listened to what you said and manages to turn things around for the better. I think you two will be ok. Just give it a bit of time.

By: Ari

Ari — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 15:44:25 +0000

To me, that’s exactly what a best friend should do - tell you what you don’t want to hear, but need to. With any luck, he respects you enough to listen to you - or at least think about what you said.

By: Lump

Lump — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 15:31:32 +0000

nah man, you didn’t do anything wrong. The truth hurts. and if family or your closest friends can’t tell you the truth straight up, then who can? I mean, I take my family and close friend’s opinions very seriously. They have to know something…